In an ideal world every person is a fully connected being–the internal voices are so well-integrated that whatever aspect of a person is best suited to handle any given situation arises to deal with it. In that world your inner voices would be connected in a constantly flowing and fluid dance.
But, the inner hair puller world (and the inner world of most people) does not match that ideal. For hair pullers, like other compulsion or addiction sufferers and those in present and past emotional pain, it’s likely that just one or two voices/aspects are in power. These “top dogs” quell and squash the rest of you into compliance.